Being Honest - Not Always Bad
Minggu, Oktober 20, 2013
I had ecountered with my two best
friends a couple days ago at one of mall in Jakarta. Our intentions are
shopping, eating and chatting. Me and my other friend was go and out each store
at that mall and my other friend really pissed off. She said that she never thought it
would be that kind of shopping. Haha, sorry dear. So we had an early dinner in the evening, and
the conversation began with current relationship. Okay, I became a hot topic
because a man escorted me to the mall. That's another story. In the
midst of this conversation, I found out that my friend's ex- boyfriend, as I
recall broke up about a year ago, already married to someone else. Though my
friend 's been dating long enough, probably about 4 years, I was shocked
to hear the news. I feel sorry for her but she can handle it so far, kinda
proud of her anyway.
After hearing the news, I remembered some of the same stories.
My friends have a long relationship with their partner. So everyone thinks they
know for sure if they eventually married . But in fact , exactly like my
friend, they broke up and married to someone else. Ah, it turns out to complicated. Time does not guarantee for a relationship to happily ever after.
The period of the relationship does not guarantee that someone has the
determination to go to the next step. Determination! I remembered someone said
that. LOL. When viewed as the third person, like me, that incident makes us
think negatively like the cheating spouse. The more I heard that story,
I look for the positive side of these events. Long relationship can be an
indication of doubt. I can not believe I said this, like a love expert ! HAHA. No, No, it does not mean that way. That's more like my personal opinion.
I'm
the type of person who believes in love at first sight. Not only the person but
also the atmosphere or something. So if I've love to someone, something or the
atmosphere, I do not need any reason. In short meaning, just believe in your
heart. The heart never lies. So I think they or maybe one of them realized and
finally acknowledge that this relationship could not continue. They tried to be
honest, although it seemed too late. But I think it's still not too late, because
this kind of courage need more time. Being honest to yourself is one of the
hardest things. Circumstances change, so does the feeling. For the good of
ourselves and others, we must have the courage to admit the truth. Even if in
the end they find their partner in a short time, I think it was destiny and
they follow their conscience. So never be afraid to be honest to yourself although at first it hurts you and others, but it just the beginning of your
happiness. So being honest isn't always turns out to be bad. Wish you all great future..LOVE!
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